One of the things that all of us are working on is, "How can we be present with each other in a peaceful, sovereign and soul-aligned way?" Most of us came in as kids and we got to experience all of the conditioning in our immediate groups and environments. We put all of that on as an outfit. We put on the same outfit that everyone else was putting on, but we weren't necessarily able to maintain who we were at our core. We started to adopt behaviors and relationship dynamics that probably were what we needed to as a kid and kept us safe or helped us navigate our way through childhood.
But as you grow and as you heal, as you let go of more of that conditioning and you become a bit more authentically you, over time, healthy detachment gets easier. You're going to find that healthy detachment from the chaotic or unaligned events or people in your life will be becoming easier for you. In many cases (and here's the good news), that's getting easier for others to accept too. It's not just you being better at detaching yourself from whether it's people pleasing or feeling beholden, or you have this pattern where you always like to give to everybody in need, it's now in conflict with the part of you that's recognizing you need a rest. This month, it will be easier for you to let your behavior go. But equally, there is more grace and peace, and understanding happening with others around that, in general.
-Lee Harris
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