LET GO OF THE LEGACY OF TRAUMA: YOU DON’T “ATTRACT” ABUSE
“We can, through no fault of our own, be attracted to narcissists, charismatics, and manipulators—friends, partners, family members, spiritual teachers. Their control and abuse feel like Love. Or what we expect from Love. Abuse and violence are never our fault, and… No one deserves it.
But we can, through no fault of our own, ignore our boundaries, our alarms and discernments, and suppress that inner voice that says, “You deserve much, much better than this.”… Or even, “Go away.”
When we are disconnected from our deepest sense of self-worth and sovereignty,… we may silence our NO. We may tolerate certain behaviors, not speak up or fight back (to keep ourselves safe).
This is the legacy of trauma.
Our nervous system is trying to save us from the perceived danger of change, of leaving the pack and striking out on our own. We tend to cling to what we know…
And then, one day, we begin to Awaken. We finally begin to hear the NO within and move forward into true safety…of the Unknown and the Unexplored.
It takes immense courage to speak up…to leave a guru, an abusive partner, a family member or a cult…Courage to listen to our deepest inner guidance and express our authentic anger…and honor and protect our precious inner child.
We do not “attract” abuse.
We are not, through any fault of our own, “manifesting” abuse, through negative vibrations or through feelings or thoughts.
We are silencing the sacred scream, the sacred rage of the inner child, the part of us that KNOWS. Therein lies our Power and our Healing.
Whatever has been suppressed can be expressed again…Make a mess. Speak your truth.
When you are ready. And not a moment before.” - Jeff Foster (Excerpts)
In the Healing process a Cocoon of Light can be manifested:
- “To all who have been sent on their Path, the Sun washes their bare feet... Washes, dries, disappears... A thousand little lights are lighting up... entering your body Wisely as a Hut of a goddess.” ~Maie Kiwi (Excerpts)
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