Every single thing I’ve been through... the pain, the mistakes, the regrets, the lessons... they’ve all been part of what built me.
I used to look back at certain chapters of my life with shame, wishing I could’ve done things differently. But now I see it clearly… if I were to remove even one of those experiences, my foundation wouldn’t be as strong as it is today.
I needed every version of myself to become who I am now. Every breakdown shaped me. Every failure carved out depth. Every betrayal sharpened my clarity. It wasn’t always pretty, but it was real. And now, when I stand, I stand on something solid... not because life went smoothly, but because I kept showing up for it.
So no, I don’t resent the past anymore. It was never meant to define me... only refine me. I didn’t fall off my path... the path was made by walking through it all.
ZF 🔥
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Remember 2019?
Feels like a whole different life now. Not just because of what we’ve all lived through... but because something in the air shifted, and it hasn’t shifted back.
Five years ago, you could move through the world and feel like it was all holding together. Routines felt reliable. People trusted the system. You could make plans and believe they’d play out. There was still a kind of structure, even if it wasn’t perfect.
Then everything cracked...
Some say it started with the pandemic. Others say it was politics, media, AI, money, the weather, the wars. But honestly? It goes deeper than any of that. Something beneath the surface snapped... and ever since, the world has felt... off.
Time moves weird now. Fast and slow at the same time. People are more angry. More lost. Truth feels slippery. And nothing... absolutely nothing... feels solid the way it used to.
But here's the thing most people won’t say out loud... You're not imagining this. You’re not just getting older. You’re waking up.
You're starting to feel what the world really is... and more importantly, what it’s not. You’re starting to see behind the curtain. And once you do, it changes everything.
Your body knows. That anxiety? The sleepless nights? The pressure in your chest? It's not just stress. It's your soul tugging on the cord saying “Hey… this life isn’t aligned anymore. Let’s remember who we are.”
This isn't a breakdown. This is an initiation. The system wasn’t built for awakened humans... it was built to keep them asleep. And now that you’re starting to see through the cracks… the old life doesn’t fit anymore.
And that’s not a bad thing. So maybe it’s time to stop trying to make it fit. Start asking the hard questions. Start trusting the weird gut feelings. Start noticing who still gets you… and who only liked the version of you that played small and stayed quiet.
The truth is… we’re not going back.
There’s no “normal” to return to.
There’s only forward. And that means unlearning, breaking patterns, and remembering what you came here to do.
You feel the shift because you were meant to feel it. You came here to walk through it… not sleep through it. So if you’re reading this and something deep inside is nodding... yeah. That’s your sign.
You’re not behind. You’re not crazy.
You’re waking up.
ZF 🔥
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Just because you’ve shared history with someone… doesn’t mean they’re meant to walk with you into the future.
Too many of us stay loyal to people who stopped showing up for us a long time ago. We make excuses. We hang on to memories. We hope they’ll change... or maybe just finally see us the way we deserve to be seen.
But here’s the truth… Sometimes it’s the people you barely know who’ll clap the loudest when you win. Sometimes it’s strangers who support you more than the ones you loved the longest.
That’s not a reflection of your worth... it’s a reflection of their blindness.
You don’t owe anyone your peace just because they were part of your past. Protect your future. Let go of what’s not clapping. Walk free.
ZF 🔥
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Sometimes we push so hard to make something work... a relationship, a job, a path that just won’t budge... and it leaves us drained, frustrated, and doubting ourselves.
But maybe it’s not supposed to open. Maybe it’s not your door.
The truth is... the things that are meant for you won’t require you to break yourself to access them. They’ll align. They’ll respond. They’ll feel right. And when the timing is true, they won’t resist you... they’ll welcome you in.
Stop wasting your energy trying to unlock a future that doesn’t belong to you. Trust the pull in your chest that says, “this isn’t it.” Walk on. Keep going. The right door is waiting... and it will open.
You don’t need to force what’s not yours. You need to trust what is.
ZF 
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